Yvonne Hayes
Specialized Parenting & Relationship Coaching
Learn How To Enjoy and Enrich your Relationships Without Changing Your Busy Lifestyle
My Services
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Parenting Coaching
Top tips and strategies to develop your parenting style. Improve your communication and the bond with your children.
Discover how to understand and de-
mystify those teenage years.
Goal and Vision Mapping
Visual your goals and turn them into reality – achieve success relating to wealth, health, career, education, and relationships.
Empower your mind with visual representations that can transform your dreams.
Courses & Upcoming Events
One to one support, day schools, recorded webinars – all available here on the above topics – we can tailor delivery to suit your needs.
Having Trouble Finding finding Life and Relationship Balance?
You’re Not Alone. And I’m Here to Help!
I really understand where you’re coming from.
How I can Help
Why struggle alone with questions and difficulties?
I am here to help and assess what the key issues are so that I can offer support. I am happy to tailor that support to meet your needs, be it daytime, evening or weekend courses to fit around your lifestyle. This support can be face to face or online. I can offer one-off webinars; 4-week courses or day-schools. Workbooks accompany each session.
Be the first to read excerpts from forthcoming books and pre-order those. Books being planned/published include: Spiritual 5-a-Day; Family 5-a-Day; The 12th Cracker; and novels about friendships and families
Finding Relationship Balance Can Be Hard, but it Doesn’t Have To Be
Maintaining a balanced life is becoming increasingly more important for your personal health and well-being in a fast-paced, modern world. This can be difficult to achieve in a busy family or in a high-pressured job, or whether seeking a new direction. What Matters Most? There is no right or wrong answer to this. It is especially important not to compare yourself to others. I can help you find what matters most by building your Life Map or your Relationships Map – you will then see where to put our focus, what, and who can help you achieve the balance you seek.
About Yvonne
Life & Relationship Coach
I am a Parenting & Relationship Coach and a Stress Management & Goal Mapping Consultant. I deliver 1-2-1 and group support to help people nurture themselves, build family unity, beat stress and achieve their potential.
I am an International Business Owner promoting health and wellbeing. Within this I act as a Business Mentor for my Team.
I have 20 years’ experience as a Psychology lecturer and 15 years’ experience as an accredited Parenting facilitator. I am a qualified in Reflexology, Indian Head Massage and Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP).
I am a member of the International Stress Management Association (ISMA)
I find all of these different skills and experiences help me to stay calm and stress-free in a very busy life.
I am married with 4 children, and 5 grandchildren.
Books being planned/published include: My Spiritual 5-a-Day; My Family 5-a-Day; The 12th Cracker; and novels about friendships and families.
My Approach
My approach is to personalise support to your needs. I like to balance this with accredited interventions including Parenting Packages, Goal Maps or Stress Management and Relaxation Techniques.
This can be delivered as a one-off support session or a series of sessions.
My Process
I spend time talking about where you are now, what are you hopes and dreams for the future. Once we have a goal in mind, we can plan your journey and support sessions to take you there. This is a personal experience and I like to work on a one-to-one or a single-family basis to match support to need.
Unique Framework
What is unique is my holistic approach as finding balance and support for parenting often involves working on relationships and managing stress and having a clear vision of where you want to be underpins this process.
“Yvonne, you have been so insightful and
helpful in all the meetings both Face to
Face and online. Thank You J Enjoy your
retirement!! “
“I wish you all the best in your
retirement. I hope your dreams come
true and thank you for all your hard
work and advice over the many years
you have dedicated to parenting.
Love x “
I’ve Developed Fun & Realistic Methods For Developing Great Relationships With Your Teen
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Frequently Asked Questions
Learn How it Works!
Can you praise a child too much?
No, praise is the magic ingredient in relationships.
It is a powerful way of encouraging children, helping them feel good about themselves.
If the praise is genuine and balanced with clear boundaries and fair penalties when they choose to behave poorly.
We all need to feel appreciated for who we are and to feel competent and believe that we can do things.
How do I set boundaries?
Boundaries are an important part pf setting limits.
They need to be easy to explain and understand.
Start by working on boundaries as a family
Decide how you want to feel at home
Identify any issues that get in the way of good feelings
What rules (said and unsaid) do you currently have & how well do they work?
Be realistic about what you want to achieve
Set 3-4 Family Rules with rewards and penalties
Try to be positive – Dos work better than DON’Ts
How can I communicate with my teen?
Choose your time
Find a common interest to talk about
Share something about yourself
Communication Is 2-way so Listen
Do something together preferably side by side as face to face is confrontational
What can I do to de-stress?
It’s easier to think of things that help you to de-stress when you are calm
Know your triggers so you can be prepared
Have a support network of people to talk to
Have a relaxation script to follow or listen to
Develop positive ‘self-talk’
Listen to music; exercise; have a bath; get outdoors; bake; talk to a friend
How can I be more effective in reaching my goals?
Set Goals that are meaningful
Take time to relax, ponder or meditate and feel what is important to you
What do you want – write all these dreams down
What is the main goal
Why do you want it
When do you want it?
Who can help you achieve it?
How are you going to achieve it – break into smaller steps
Now add pictures to those goals in a Dream Board
How do I find more time?
Be realistic – what do you want to achieve this week?
Write in a diary/calendar the things that MUST be done
Now look for the nooks and crannies that you can fit other activities into.
Colour code this – e.g., Blue for Work; Pink for Family; Green for Hobbies; Yellow for Me-time; Orange for Church; Purple for Study etc.…
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Email Address
hello@yvonne-hayes.com
Call Me
07931 896141